Why We Need To Celebrate Christian Dads

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The Unsung Christian Hero: Dad!

Yesterday, I had a emergency church board meeting that I had to attend. The topic of which was going to be a very challenging subject and one that no one was wanting to address. Since I am a part of the church board, it meant all the sudden my husband had to take on all the responsibilities of cleaning up the kids’ supper messes, bathing, jammies, story times, and tucking kids in by himself. This after he had been up since 5 that morning and done a full, long day of work.

Normally, we do the bedtime routine together and it takes half the time than if only one person does it. But he willingly took it upon himself to do this task and even stayed up late to wait for me to return from the meeting so we could still talk before we feel asleep. (Something I greatly appreciated as the tension of the meeting was wearing off.)

Now comes the part that I am totally ashamed to share. I didn’t even think to say a simple “thank you” to him until the next day. Of course, I was grateful to have his help, support, and kind gestures. However, I completely failed to let him know that. And yet, he did it all cheerfully anyway!

Some would say that he should just do this because it is the right thing to do and not expect a thank you of any sorts. Some would say that I should make him do more!

But those are worldly ways of thinking of myself over my husband. God calls me to live my life differently from the world and one part of that is be a help mate and encouragement to my husband.

Today, let’s look at some of the reasons why we as Christian wives definitely need to celebrate the Godly Christian men in our life!

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Christian Dads Are Being Torn Down By The World

Modern feminists would claim that men are the cause of the majority of our problems as females. Men are under attack in our world. Even good and Godly men. Television series are based around the complete ineptness and cluelessness of the male species.

Guys can’t do much right in the world’s eyes, especially Christian men who are standing up for their faith in God.

This constant barrage from the world can discourage and leave your husband worn out. Let’s make our homes and marriages a safe place from this stressful, relentless attack of the world.

Christian Dads Are Living Examples Of God To Their Kids

Many people have completely walked away from their faith in God because they pictured God to be just like their father. And if God was like their father, well, they simply didn’t want any part of that!

Dads influence their kids in so many ways! But one of the most important ways a Christian man leaves his mark on the world is through his legacy of Christian fatherhood.

When a Christian dad displays grace, love and patience towards his kids, they learn more about God and His great love for them as well. As they witness their dad seek out and grow in his own faith throughout the years, they are far more likely to want to seek out and grow a faith in God all their own.

Being a living example of God to our children is no small task! Let’s praise and encourage the Christian father who strives to be faithful in his representation of God’s love to his children!

Christian Dads Are Sacrificing Their Own Desires Everyday

My husband used to play hours of his favorite sports-related video games. Now, he maybe plays an hour or two a week, on a good week!

Before he was married, my husband had hours to devote to working out to keep himself in top physical condition. Now, he gets to walk at a snail’s pace to and from the park where he spends hours playing with his kids. Needless to say, this is not an effective cardio experience and he misses the body he had back in those “glory” days.

Some days my husband just wants five minutes of peace and quiet in the bathroom but instead he finds himself surrounded by little bodies begging for his attention and affection.

Every single day, our husbands set aside their own desires and instead live selflessly for us, our kids, and others. They follow in the footsteps of their Master as they daily pick up their crosses and deny their needs and desires.

The Godly men who do this definitely deserve our praise and admiration for their sacrificial way of life.

Christian Dads Are Living Out The Calling That God Has Placed On Their Life

God calls Christian men to live for Him in a counter-cultural way.

In America alone there are over 17.5 million homes without a father present. Simply by choosing to be present in his own home, a Christian dad is taking a stand against the culture around him.

After that, he is taking a stand by training his children to love God and to know right from wrong. As moral absolutes quickly are going out of style in the world, this is huge calling that God is placing on your husband!

Finally, simply by choosing to commit to you in a marriage union is big deal. The world scoffs at the idea of purity and marriage for life to one person. God calls him to be faithful to you and you only as his spouse. As he lives out this decision to love and serve you everyday, he is also fulfilling his calling and setting a high example for your children to one day look for in a spouse.

Living a Godly life as God calls him to is a game changer that deserves notice and praise!

Christian Dads Are Wondering If We Truly Care Or Notice

As a mother, I can safely say there are days where I wonder if anyone notices or cares about what I am doing! Seriously, how big of a deal is it that I keep doing all this laundry faithfully?! Doesn’t it feel wonderful when someone, whether our husband or our kids or even a friend, takes the time to simply notice and appreciate some of the little details that we take care of?

Now think about your husband. How often do our husbands wonder if anyone notices? Are they left wondering if their actions matter? Does anyone even care that they sacrifice and live out God’s calling for their lives?

When one is left doubting the value of their contribution to the family, it can lead to dejection, apathy, and distinct slacking off from doing the right thing. As Christian fathers are left contemplating their worth, that is where we as their wives need to step in.

Let’s show our husbands appreciation, thanks and extra measures of love!

And we need to bring our kids along for the ride. Demonstrate to them and train them to love and appreciate all the members of their family but especially their dad. Remind them of what an important role their father plays in their lives. Set aside special times to pray together for their dad. Plan special treats to give to dad when he comes home from work. (If you want more ideas on how to love your husband well, I suggest you check out The 5 Love Languages.)

Just don’t leave Dad curious if he matters at all in his family!

 

Your Turn

My husband is constantly making sacrifices, both big and small to make sure that everyone is our family is cared for in every imaginable way. No, he is not perfect. Yes, some days he still drives me up one wall and back down another! 🙂 He is still human after all. We have our rough days and times when communication fails.

But when I stop and consider the huge blessing that he is in my life all I can do is praise God for such an amazing God-fearing man!

And I know there are lots of other men out there who are also faithfully living out the calling God has given on their lives as Christian husbands and fathers.

But here is the question I have to ask, do our husbands know we appreciate them?

Are they aware that they are a blessing to their family? Perhaps do they have to guess if they are valuable members to their family at all!

Writing this is hard for me because I am so guilty of not sharing my own love and appreciation for my husband nearly enough. But here’s the thing, I am seeking to get better! I want him to know that he is the best thing since sweet tea and dark chocolate!

Have you ever noticed your husband doing something awesome and spoke up to let him know? How did he take the compliment?

Do you struggle with praising and appreciating your husband for all he does as a Christian husband and father?

When was the last time you thanked your husband for something?

Take a few minutes to share your thoughts in the comments below!

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